
Psalm 90: 10-12; We live for 70 years or so (with luck we might make it to 80), And what do we have to show for it? Trouble. Toil and trouble and a marker in the graveyard. Who can make sense of such rage, such anger against the very ones who fear you? Oh! Teach us to live wisely and well! (The Message Bible)
It was a Thursday afternoon in Tacoma, Washington. April 21, 1988, 21 years ago yesterday, our Mother, Siainiu Liu Katina, went home to be with Jesus. She was only 50 years old but anyone who had the privilege of knowing her would tell you that she lived a full, flourishing and favorable life! She was the Mom that all of our friends and cousins wish they could have. She was beautiful, elegant, sensitive, resourceful, and loved people so readily. She battled cancer for 4 years and though it was very painful to see her decline physically, we learned the most valuable lessons of life during that time. To honor her memory, we want to share with you some of those lessons.
1. Make the best of every situation!
We moved to Samoa in 1977. It was a tough transition for our family. Dad and Mom had steady jobs in Oceanside, California and we were blessed to live in a middle-class neighborhood. Then we discovered, Samoa. To be honest it was not “the islands of our dreams” at the time. No running hot water. All of us contracted various diseases because of the change of climate and diet. Moving from village to village, living with relatives that were speaking a foreign language. And worst of all for any American-born child, “no McDonald’s”! Mom was our constant source of encouragement. She did her best to stay positive even when situations were difficult. James reminded us of how resourceful she was. She could make a great meal out of nothing. We couldn’t afford to buy clothes from the store so she would buy fabric and sew our clothes. She tried her best to stay current with whatever was in style. She wasn’t always successful, but we didn’t have the heart to tell her, “Mom this doesn’t look like what everyone else is wearing.” Like her, we tried to make the best of the situation!
2. Pray!
She prayed about everything. For several years, our house was just a shell without walls. It was divided by curtains. We would hear Mom just about every night, crying out to God for our salvation. She wasn’t gifted musically, but she constantly prayed that her children would be used to bring people to Christ. She prayed fervently for her siblings, nephews and nieces. She prayed that they would accept Christ as their Lord and Savior. It’s amazing that even after her death; those prayers are still bearing fruit today! It always seemed like when Mom prayed, God answered.
3. Love People!
She would say this to us continually, “Love People!” They were words she lived by. Occasionally, we would have troubled teenagers or homeless families living with us. Dad’s discipline and strict rules would keep them in check and give them a house to stay in. But Mom’s love and tender heart would bring transformation and provide them with a home. We literally saw lives changed because of the depth and sincerity of Christ’s love in her. She embodied so many great qualities. But her greatest attribute was love.
We could do a 52 week series and still have plenty to say about Mom. But I’ll close with this. She lived each day, the way she lived her 50 years, “to the fullest”! I often wonder what it would be like if she could have met her Grandchildren. She never got to see any of them. I wonder how proud she would be of the wives we chose. I imagine she would enjoy visiting with each of them and telling them our childhood stories. What would it be like to have her at one of our concerts? What would she think of the men she raised and prayed for? She never got to see us perform a full concert. She died shortly before our first recording came out.
I am certain of one thing, the legacy she left behind still speaks loud and clear. She lived her life wisely and well! You and I have the opportunity today to do the same. We have “one life to live!” Live it wisely. Live it well.
Until next week,
Live Strong!
-joe
PS We will continue the “Looking” series next week.